Principles of a safer space of Kohtaus

We treat each other respectfully

• We respect each other's physical, mental and emotional boundaries.

• We speak respectfully of ourselves and each other.

• Everyone has a right to feel safe in their bodies, therefore we won’t criticize or comment on others or our own bodies.

• Everyone has a stake in making our shared space welcoming for all.

We avoid making assumptions

• We avoid guessing or assuming other people’s gender identity, sexuality, background, life situation or (physical or mental) abilities.

• Instead of assuming, we aspire to be open and listen to one another - we give others a chance to tell more about themselves.

• We are learning to recognize and become aware of our own prejudices and assumptions so that we can be more considerate towards one another.

We give space to one another

• We make sure everyone has a space to speak and participate in their own way.

• We don’t harass others verbally or by touching or staring.

• We stop if someone asks for it - no means no.

• We respect everyone’s personal space.

All of us take responsibility for creating a safer atmosphere

• At Kohtaus you’re allowed to speak about difficult topics as well. In our conversations we’ll make sure we take others into account and speak respectfully about different topics for they can be sensitive to others due to personal experiences.

• Principles of safer space don’t mean that you have to be perfect or have to know how to do everything - you have permission to make mistakes and to learn. Everybody makes mistakes sometimes but the most important thing is to take responsibility for one's actions and apologize.

• We all commit to comply with the principles of safer space so that Kohtaus can be as safe a place as possible for different kinds of people. You don’t have to make friends with everyone but we aspire to treat one another with kindness and respect.

If you experience or witness problematic situations, please notify someone from the Kohtaus Crew.

Yes, you can! Come and go however you feel like doing. Occasionally, there may be events that require a joint start that you should be on time for. These will always be indicated separately.

Accessibility information Malmi:
entrance by lift to the third floor. On the way, there are two thresholds, each one centimetre tall.

The space is accessible. No accessible toilet.

Accessibility information Vallila:
Unfortunately, the space is not accessible at the moment.

This is possible! Look here!

It's worth it. According to feedback, Kohtaus has a very warm and receptive atmosphere. The Crew will most likely already be at the door to greet you. <3

Of course! In this case, please contact an employee of the urban lounge you want to visit in advance. Or send a message directly from the contact information page. You can also call the phone of the Secret Café of your choice.

The living rooms are places for young adults who want to meet new people, participate in small events or for those who are looking for something to be inspired by.

Malmi is intended for 18–35-year-olds

Vallila is intended for 18–30-year-olds

There had not been any interesting places in Helsinki where young adults could meet each other and make friends. It all started with very modest small events carried out by volunteers and a small lounge space in Helsinki's Vallila, on Eurantie. Kohtaus’ urban lounge was founded by Satu Lekola and Liina Kahelin.